Hello all. My original story is posted under newcomers titled "all of a sudden".............
Its been a little over a month now since our big fight over something stupid, and when he asked me what I wanted, I told him that I didn't know if things could get better. He interpreted that as "I want a divorce" and its been a downhilll spiral ever since.
We've both been unhappy for a long time, and I've tried and tried so hard, and have forgiven so many things, all I ever wanted him to do is understand how he makes me feel. Well he can't do that because it would mean acknowledging hes done something wrong. We've separated before and he has always chansed me, I guess maybe hes bound and determined not to do that again?
The house is his, which has always been one of our issues, so all of my things are in storage and I'm going to stay with my brother.
I miss him, and I do love him, and I know we could be great together if he would take the time to understand.
We've been together for 4 years Married for 3 no kids together. I have four and he has three.
I spent 2 days falling apart while he watched me, walking around the house like he is completely happy. But I picked myself up and moved on and started moving on with my life, but some days are so hard...........
