LC4 - I'm scared to set those boundaries. I mean - how? We sit in the living room together at night. It's really pretty much the only time i get to see her anymore. I don't want to make her leave.... but I also eat myself alive having to watch this. I see this little smile on her face and I imagine what they are saying. Sickening.

I am afraid if I tell her it's disrespectful she may intepret it as controlling - maybe use it as an excuse to move out - or ????? I guess instead of 'as iffing' right now I'm "what iffing..." LOL.

Thanks Virginia for removing me from moderation. smile


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed