Responded to H in the late morning. Got a fairly long 3-paragraph response back less than 2 hours later.

Sure wish he'd been this attentive when we were together.

H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11