You are 100% right about the IC's. My XW and I have seen 3 IC's and they have all said to not do stuff together with the kids. I keep bringing this up with my X and she say's "the kids will adapt to whatever, as it will become their norm".
I think my X will probably not ask to do anything together with the kids anymore. We seem to at least be gaining some distance from each other by extending the duration between contact.
Ha ha, to tell you the truth I would prefer to have a '"friend" instead of a girlfriend. (I am sure you know what I mean)
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
