HI Confused,

You posted for 25 yrs mlc - she might not be visiting my sitch .... ? Maybe make a new thread to call her to your attention?

Anyways:

Today is H's birthday.

With regards to touch and go's, he is in touch mode right now - talks to me, a bit more connected, although of course, nothing by way of bing affectionate or caring. Not that I expect any.

But its his birthday. I did buy him an expensive gift, actually two - one from me, one from D12. Thats a 180 for me because although I do like giving gifts, I am sort of cheap. H on the other hand does not gift much gifts but when he does, they are expensive.

I plan to put give him a card as well, with a very simple message, no mention of love, or whatever. Something one would give a dear friend.

I did give him a hug and a kiss on the cheek this moring. He left early to go hunting (1st day of dove season). He came back as I was leaving for the office at around 9:00 AM - I was all dressed in my pretty skirt and 4 inch heels, made up and all but I sat with him for a few minutes in our backyard and plucked feathers with my bare hands....while we exchanged pleasantries about how well he did, how he got the limit in 20 mins while the other hunters hadn't shot any (H is very good), and how plump the doves were (he will cook them later).

I asked him a few days back if he would like to do anything today, he said probably eat out, but he declined when I volunteered to be the one to reserve for him.

So my frineds, what doyou think? Am I doing OK, or too available?


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go