...... I would think this is a good time to go as dark as you possibly can. I would limit your conversations to only your daughter and anything else that is absolutely necessary. Don't bring up the affair, don't bring up the divorce, don't bring up the relationship, don't ask her how she's doing, nothing. Let her miss you and get a taste of what the life she has chosen is going to be like. Again, just my 2 cents.
You are absolutely right and that is my plan. Thanks for validating it. Zero contact it is.
I came home and inspected the house, she only took we we agreed to, so I was relieved. I then left to have dinner with a coworker. When I got back, I was only awake and alone for about an hour, and for some odd reason, I enjoyed it. I moved my stuff back into the master bath, put a few dog things away (she took the dog), and straightened up the kitchen a little. I am a neat freak and she was the exact opposite.
Anyway, today I got beat in court. I have to pay her spousal support that I don't even have until the divorce is final. I have lost faith in the Texas judicial system.
The 60 day cool off ends Oct 8th, so I will now be doing everything in my power to make it final that day so that I will have only had to pay her one spousal payment.
On a positive note, I was allowed the change the locks on the house so I just got that done! LOL
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
