It is so easy to say and see what we have lost. Is is several times more difficult to see what we have gained and then to pass that on.
There is a choice to be made here...to let the divorce define you and your children's lives or to find a way to make it a blip on the radar. Dig deep and find a way to make the positives more apparent. Focusing on just you and your girls is a step in the right direction. If it helps, I started to take my kids on mini-adventures once we were separated. I took the kids on the spur of the moment to the Omaha zoo(3 hours away), another time to Atchison to see Amelia Earhart's childhood home and even an hour jaunt to Emporia to see their zoo. The kids keep asking when the next one will be...
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory