Just curious if your W might be intimidated that you are a therapist, as I think that mine is. Does she accuse you of being in "counselor mode" when you are actively listening? Mine would/does. I am sorry to hear that you are hurting. Just dropped by to say hi.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12