As most of you know I am divorced and I am in the middle of a custody evaluation for my D12. My ex doesn’t want to go through the evaluation (I think she can see the writing on the wall). My D17 is still living with me, so this is really about D12. On Sunday D12 was at my house and it was getting late so I suggested that we should probably take her home. She asked if she could stay the night and the rest of the week. It was her mom’s weekend and I didn’t want to push my luck with her staying but I said we can ask your mom and see if she agrees. Well the ex was sitting outside when we pulled up talking to D17’s BF they had broken up again. Well I ask him if D12 and I could talk to ex for a minute then he could talk when we are finished. So he left and D12 asked if she could spend the week at my house the ex agreed and D12 went inside to get her things. After D12 went inside the ex started telling me that I have turned into a wonderful father then she started ripping into me about being a bully and a selfish person. When she started yelling I got up and told her you are not going to talk to me like this and I started walking to my car. She followed a little and I wouldn’t acknowledge anything she said. She turned and walked in the house slamming the door. D12 came out with her stuff and we left.
She sent me an e-mail the next day telling me everything bad about me being a bully and selfish. I responded with facts, not the crap that she was spewing out and I have heard nothing back. That night D17 had to go to the hospital for some pains and stuff that worried me about her being pregnant and it turned out to be nothing. The ex was super sweet to me at the hospital. Night and day and I found that odd.
Last night D17’s BF comes over and tells me that after I left Sunday he went back and the ex was crying to him telling him how she missed me and loved me! He was upset because he didn’t know how the subject turned form him to her. I was kind of shocked at what he told me because 20 minutes before that and the next day I was the most evil man on the planet. Well I might not be the evil man she portrays me to be and it might be harder to show her He Woman Man Hater friend that I am.
I guess I must be getting tested full force now. I don’t understand how OM is still in the picture, yet she tells D17’s BF all this other stuff? Maybe that grass wasn’t as green as she thought. I won’t mind read and I will continue on my journey my way because I like the old new me! I also refuse to reach out to her because I know she has to be the one reaching out. This might be the beginning of a slight turn. Who knows I can’t get pulled back into the negative crap and I will not let that happen!
Me 44 W 38 M 18 D 18 D 13 Bomb 10/21/2010 Divorced 7/19/2011 Just getting to the 7th inning!
