My intentions, thoughts, feelings, and desires are completely jumbled in her head.
And you know this how? I know what she says and reacts to you but you know what we say around here believe none of what they say and half of what they do.
You are the bad guy right now. I know that is hard to except and you want to fight it and defend YOURSELF.
To her that IS what you are doing. As long as you are defending, explaining, justifying...
Really any sentence that contains me, my, I will be met with opposite view from her.
Originally Posted By: Really
It is very frustrating to me to have her walking around with inaccurate interpretations of where I’m at personally.
I understand this feeling but really the only thing you can do is show her that you still beleive in your M. That you are committed to it.
Everything else is up to her. You can't control her or her thoughts however wrong YOU think they may be.
I want you to read what you posted up there and see how many times you used the words my, me, and I.
Followed by what you hope to control, communicate or accomplish.
It is good to have goals Really.
They must be things you control. Goals for you.
So what are your goals?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am