So I have been put in the spotlight with my children. SS15 doesnt want to leave and live with his dad. He wants to stay here with his family, he just wants his mom to visit every tuesday and thursday and every other weekend at the house.
Of course he has talked to his mom about it and got his 2 brothers and sister to beg me to allow it.
I just dont know what to do. I have been down this road for months with her. I dont know if i can emotionally handle that situation right now. She called me to ask if it was possible, and said she would be very thankful if i would allow it to happen.
I tild her i dont think i could handle the situation at the moment, there is too much going on in my life and my head is cloudy and i dont think i could handle it emotionally. Her response to that was, "well you didnt say no. Lets leave it at that, see how it goes and deal with it if and when you cant do it anymore".
Uhm, this isnt fair, the kids and her are now scheming against me. I am expected to allow her back into my house.
