Thanks, Maryr! I appreciate it.

Got another email from H today (that's 2 in 2 days), asking about the upcoming holiday weekend, and also asking about if we should start working toward changing the visitation schedule.

I like to sleep on his mails if I can, or at least let them percolate in my head for a few hours - I don't like to respond without being very deliberate about my words.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11