Thanks AJM. Heal- can't even imagine that right now but I need to do more than just imagine. Some work on me is needed. 25yearsmlc- my L has asked me to touch base with H about the paperwork he should have received and ask what is next? Your L can do this^^^. Yes, he'll bill you for the time calling, but so what? Avoid contacting your h if you cannot handle it now. And you have nothing to be ashamed of and must hold your head high. Let your H feel the pain of his making, and not let him dump that on you.
Not sure I want to do that? Any input? Civil with this man? "Civil"? Angry? Hurt? L2 you won't fix or blow this with the "wrong" word or look on your face that day or that hour. KWIM?
You can keep the road home paved and smooth but even then, do you believe he'll do "the work" ?
Even if all you ask of him is to show up for his kids...you think he'll do that? So far, how's that been working? I'm asking honestly...do you believe he'll show up for them?
For now I'd be all about protecting the financial interests of the kids and you.
If that's civil or all business, so be it. Do what you have to do to protect them and yourself.
If and when your h wakes up AND TAKES SOME ACTION towards you...let's cross that bridge when we get to it.
For now take care of YOU and those children of yours...make sense?
I keep thinking I need to keep the road home paved smooth. Now that I have filed- can I really do that? Won't he just see a big stop sign? I am tired of all of this.
IDK what you mean about HIM seeing a stop sign...what do YOU see in HIS behavior?
Don't forget-YOU are the aggrieved party, not him.
And of course you are tired of all this. Life, hear me now...
you can stop being tired of it. You get that, right?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
