refer your children's questions about OM to your w. And don't listen for the answer, leave it alone.
how are YOU with the kids now? Remember that thing about being the best dad you can be?
it's so important, now more than ever. No mother is untouched by it --but make sure you are there FOR your kids, as opposed to having them around to comfort You...make sense?
Learn from the mistakes and don't repeat them. If you can do THIS, you'll be surprised at how far your progress will take you. If you stay stuck and repeat the same mistakes, a lot, it cements her choice to bolt.
You get that, right? I mean, you don't have to feel okay about it but you understand why this wuold be the case, right?
So, you're human and you fell but you got back up again. Believe her about the OM
b/c until something proving otherwise is tossed into your lap (do NOT snoop)
it'll keep you from freaking again. Freaking out, or 'losing it", is a serious backslide that will do m more to sabotage your DB efforts than aything else. Keep it together. Be a good dad, do your 180s, DETACH and GAL.
I'm glad you printed out the "rules"...I sure had to. I cut the paper in half to make it small enough to fit into my purse, and I even put them on my Ipod by talking into it so I could hear them too...
I had to. I had to keep it together. So do you.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
