I forgot - read about MLC. I think your H sounds like he isin one. There is a website called "the heroes spouse" that has some material on MLC. Also a lot of other information out there.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
