About your W's negative behavior after the e-mail: The rollercoaster abounds, my friend. I have a strong feeling that she's trying to hold onto as much negative energy about YOU as possible in order to make herself feel better about what she's done. I can't read my W's mind, but from what I've seen and heard, she's been changing it around a lot so that I come out looking like the bad guy. From what I hear, there's a chance that their attempts to cover up their own guilt will fail one day. When it comes to an A, it always has to, especially if they were good people to begin with. Lies to the self only last so long before they wear thin.
About your W's contacts: I get this one plenty. Like I've noted in my thread, my W has contacted me almost once a week for over a month about stuff that doesn't really need to be discussed in detail. I have little doubt that our W's, despite their behavior, are very much curious to know what we're thinking and feeling. That intimate connection to us doesn't just disappear overnight, and the more we hold out, the more it probably draws them back to it.
