Pretty sure this is a MLC or Identity Crisis

[tested metal]

Well I think the handcuffs are being cut a little more. After I found out that several bills in my name were due immediately or services would be shut off (which she insisted previously to have total control over paying the bills), I informed W that if future services in my name aren't paid on time, they would be cut off, by me. She blew a gasket, then calmly informed me that she found a phone and a phone plan for cheaper, so I can drop her this friday. (Thank God!) She then told me to shut off the satellite, but then recanted when she was infromed of the cost to disconnect early. (I am working on getting that settled to for less of a future headache.) Now I apparently have been divorced via facebook! LOL.

Anywho, I have been calm throughout the ordeal today and am feeling less scared about the possiblity of D, since she clearly needs space to get her head together and I clearly need space to recoup financially, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally.

Apparently, I have gotten phenomenal at playing the guitar again, as I have been getting complements from everyone.
I also planned a big trip out of town next month with friends that I haven't seen in forever, which the W is curious about. I am set to move at the end of the week and am actually starting to look forward to it. The W can be the OM problem now (atleast until the money dries up). Thank you all for the support and the resources. i almost have all the resources read that have been suggested to me on this thread and I ordered Peter o'Conner's book, which I look forward to reading soon.

As an aside, I do recognize that my W is replaying when she was 18 yrs. old as I was informed this weekend by MIL that she is acting the exact same way, dressing the exact same way, and doing the same things......interesting..., but any way onward and forward to working on me!!!