There's that rule of thumb that you should see improvement in two weeks if what you're doing DB wise is working. I haven't seen any change, which is part of the LRT, that if you're in a holding pattern then things aren't getting worse. But, the holding pattern is complete separation.
I want "to do something different" but don't know what.
I talked with the other girl and told her that I wanted to get to know her better and take her out. She told me she was torn because she has been on and off with a guy for awhile and had told me she wasn't seeing anybody because they were arguing. She said it is very volatile between her and this guy. I told her that I didn't want to get in the middle of it if it's volatile and she has a thing for this guy and that she can let me know if and when she wants to spend time with me. I did that Monday night and haven't heard from her since.