Thanks, JB. I keep trying to convince myself that logistically, his affair can't work. She lives 2500 miles away, and has 2 kids. Her husband isn't willing to entertain moving here, or letting her move with the kids, and hopefully she's not such an awful mom that she'd move without them.

I'm obviously not willing to let H move there with S7, and although I'm half convinced he'll just move and abandon him, I hope I'm wrong.

I'm not even sure I'd ever want H back, after what he's put me through, but somehow the idea of them "working out" just makes me sick.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11