She's STILL running away!!!!

[Truegritter]

She is no longer worth it.

When will she be again? When she starts doing what you want?

She was worth at one point. The point when you said your vows?

One of the main reasons I married my wife is because I thought she would be a good mother. How can a "good mother" do this?

Just a question. What were the other "main" reasons? A good mother is subjective to you. Right now she is not doing what you think she should. What other things is she not or maybe did not do that didn't fulfill your expectations of her?

When she didn't do those things did you:

I have no more sympathy for her.

React ^^^ this way?

My sadness is turning into resentment.

Well that is normal. I must worn you that if you sprout roots here you will find yourself in the line for a one way ticket to Bitterville.

Population YOU.

Now.

When you took your vows did you say?:

"I will love and honor you all the days of my life."

"BUT if you get scared and make poor choices, then I won't."

????

This is tough stuff Really.

How would you want to be loved? Only when you are peaceful and quiet and content?

Or when you are scared and confused? SO scared you run away?

You do need to find peace here and that starts from within.

If you return in kind the fear and confusion, the pain and resentment, you will sow it in your own life.

In this tragedy we all share there is an opportunity for you learn a different experience than what you have now. Than what maybe you have lived.

To choose it.

At this point in your M someone must be the stronger. The more courageous.

You are here so?