So good to hear from you Peace....... My sitch is a little different. Ex is coming out of replay. Sold all his midlife crisis toys, the convertible, motorcycle, speedboat, etc...... He is less angry and only communicates via text to me. He seems somewhat embarrassed and less arrogant. He is still living with OW, but clearly they don't seem to have much of a connection. Kids are not connected to her in any way. I have moved on with my life, but have not found a significant other. I have dated a lot but I am struggling with trust issues--- what a surprise. I am happy and have told ex this and wished him well. He has apologized for his actions once. He texts me sometimes several times a day and started this shortly after I told him that I forgave him and wished him and his bimbo much happiness. Ex is is much more receptive to my advice regarding kids and has been very accomadating to me.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11