More Journaling W had kids at her GF for a BBQ and one of the neighborhood kids had asked my D if she wanted to go to the beach with her and her family. W asked if I would stop by and pick D up and drop her off at her friends. I said sure no problem and when I arrived my S wanted to go with me and didn't want to stay with my W. My W did not like that and TBH I did get some satisfaction from that.
I would have never thought that in the beginning of all of this that I would become the more stable parent. While my W continues her new teenage lifestyle I will continue to be there rock and the best Dad I can be.
My family was able to come up with the remaining money I needed to buy her out of the house. So that is good news.
All in all I'm doing really good. The agreement we have in place will give me everything that I really wanted out of all this. The house, the kids half the time and for them to remain in the same school with all of their friends. I will pay her support and still be able to live a managable lifestyle.
My C did mention to me that she has been seeing someone and thinks we would be perfect for each other. We are both very anxious to meet but I will hold off until I sign the separation agreement. I don't consider it rushing into anything so soon after my separation because looking back my W and I haven't had that type of relationship in 2 years. And I am ready to move forward.
There is a difference between knowing the path & walking the path. – Morpheus
