I was DB'ing but just discovered an affair

[NTX_Dad]

Even if it didn't hurt and your daughter didn't witness it, you need to let her know that isn't acceptable again. She has apologized, and you've forgiven her, so move on from it and don't bring it up. But if it happens again, I'd remove myself from the situation and let her throw a fit on her own. She'll tire of that quickly.

Thanks lc4, you are right, I do need to set the boundary.

She got angry again last night, but there was no punching. Her attorney is asking for spousal support in the temporary orders even though she claims she doesn't want them. She won't call him and remove it though, instead she says she will write me a check and give it back. Yeah right!!

We were discussing that and I finally asked what I did to deserve all of this, and she started painting me as an ugly dark villain and threw in all sorts of random stuff, half of which wasn't even true. She then left to take a load of stuff to her new apartment and didn't come back home. I saw on her Facebook that she slept on a sleeping bag on the floor of the apartment. She even commented that she's hit rock bottom.

But then oddly enough, she walked in this morning in a good, sweet mood and talked about trivial stuff while I dressed. I swear it's Jeckle and Hyde.

She is moving out today, so tonight will be difficult when I get home to a partially empty house and nobody home.