In some ways this sounds like my SO's behavior. She told me this person she was texting for hours at night was just a friend. I snooped last night and lo and behold I am hit with "ILY" and all manner of horrible things to imagine your partner of 13 years saying to another person. I am beyond crushed, devastated....I have an appointment tonight with a DB counselor. I hope there is hope. I cannot go through this. I just cannot stand it.
Hang in there brother. I know exactly how you feel. I was able to read some texts about 10 days ago and they hurt. I've been numb about it for some reason... I haven't even shed a tear about it since. I think in a way, I feel that I validated it and realized I haven't been crazy all of this time.
Let us know how the DB session goes.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
