I've been a good boy today, no FBing! I also blocked my note on "Seminars For Single Guys Dating Muslims" I thought that could create a conversation I don't really want to have! She'd probably never look anyway but...
I think new friends can see old statuses after they've been added. For me - I was happy to be able to post a few things here and on FB about my anticipation or disappointments. But everyone has their own comfort levels.
One of the real downsides of FB is TOO MUCH INFORMATION>
We all know things about friends of friends of friends that we probably never wanted to. And also about our kids etc. For instance - I've seen photos of tattoos on my kids' FB pages that I would not have known about otherwise. And probably wish I didn't. LOL.
I still maintain that I am glad Josh and I are not on FB together. Who needs that when you are conversing in other ways.
OMG, what if she sees my frog album!...OK, I already told her about that anyway. I'm enjoying the messaging aspect of FB, that no one else can see, because I can say what I want to her (and she can tell me how sweet I am!) without the accent thing getting in the way of understanding each other on the phone. I told her that tonight I was going to my meditation class and I was going to meditate on the beauty of her smile!
MM starts her new job on the weekend...boo! Her hours will be Wednesday to Sunday 4-12 Yuch!!! She told me she was so looking forward to doing something on the weekend with me. We decided last night that we'd do dinner and a movie on Thursday night instead. We FB together every night and I really look forward to it. Last night I went to see if she'd messaged me and there was nothing, I felt a little sad (Yuck!!) and just then she came on line and we had a nice fun chat. She can tease with the best of them, I've met my match! Anyway, as I signed off I said "I feel so lucky to have you in my life right now. Really!" and she replied "speechless!!!!!" I had this sudden fear that maybe I'd gone too far, so I wrote "speechless in a good way?" she said "Whatis, go answer your door" (I told her a neighbour was at my door). I said "OK, I hope I don't sound "too much" I'm just very happy these days!" She said "And I'm happy that I can make someone feel so happy!" Anyway, maybe we'll see the Smurf's ...OMG, have I lost it!
MM just texted me from her doctor's office telling me she is there. I don't know how to text! So I'm trying to find a co-worker to show me how to respond. Texting is hell!
OK, after five text messages I think I've got it! It's still hell all those little buttons. She's just gone in to see the doctor now. I think she's nervous or bored that's why she's texting me. I've learned something new. I hope her tests are OK. They're testing the nerves in her spine re the bulging disc.
She texted me to tell me she was finished and going home (after a two hour wait at the Specialist Office) so I phoned her, knowing she was tired, and asked if I could pick her up. Good thing I did, there was a major accident on the bus route she would be taking home and she'd probably be sitting in traffic still! She texted me later to thank me for driving her home. I think I've got this texting thing down pat now!
Wow - you're like a kid in a candy shop. Just remember - Candy's Dandy - but sex won't rot your teeth! LOL
Barb
LOL. Last night we were on FB for a bit, not too long. She hadn't eaten all day because she was nervous about her tests (which explains the many texts I was suddenly recieving). I asked her if she had eaten, I said "please say you ate!" She said she did. We talked for a bit and I told her I needed to get off the computer because D14 was having FB withdrawls. So she said "OK, goodnight, Kuya" I have no idea what "Kuya" means so I googled it, it means "respectful term for older brother" so I FB'd her back and said "hey, what's with the older brother comment!" She said "you called me older sister!" Apparently the word "ate" in Tagalog means older sister, she was teasing me. She then said "Hey, why are you still on the computer" and I replied "I just can't get enough of you" Her reply "getting impatient with older brother lolllll" She's such fun! We're going to dinner and a movie tomorrow night and she now doesn't have to work on the weekend so we'll do something on one of those days too. It's supposed to rain so now all my wonderful outdoor plans may be in the dumper. I'm excited right now but kinda scared too. But when we're together I feel this calmness and like we've been together for a long time. Feels nice...but strange.
