Val, I just read your post. It seems my changes are creating her mindset and it makes sense. She doesn't trust them so she is going to challenge them. I get upset at myself for allowing her to create the conflicts but I think I do a pretty good job remaining calm. I am far from perfect though.
Yesterday I brought up things from the past which are not helpful. She keeps calling me a liar and I feel I need to defend myself.
I am very tempted to write her a letter explaining my thoughts. I know it won't do any good though. I'll probably just write it for me and not show it to her.
She started sending me inflammmatory TM's last night and my only response was "I hope you find peace". I meant it. I am finding mine.
