lc4, I'm glad to hear you are so happy with your atty. I'm especially glad to hear there are some out there with good Christian values. I am hoping if I have to cross that bridge, I will find one that's just as good. I am fortunate enough that one of the pastors at my church is a bailiff in our county's court system.
It's good to hear your H is amenable to the counseling. You have a healthy perspective - it's a good baby step, but you are holding out to see if he sticks with it.