Thanks for you thoughts and prayers everyone. My grandpa lived a good life and his passing was not unexpected... although you can never be fully prepared for the death of a loved one.
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Update...
W called me late this afternoon. I missed the call she left a voice message. She was calling to see how I was doing, to let me know that she and her family were thinking of me and my family. "Just touching base".
I did not call her back. I sent her a text instead.
Me: "Hey. Got your message. I'm okay. Thanks for the call. Tell your family thanks also."
Thanks LITB and CS.
Continued update from today...
W texted me back about an hour after my last text to her ^^^^
W: "Has the family made any plans? How are they?"
Me: "yeah. Funeral is on Friday. My dad is taking it hard. My grandma is handling it really well considering."
W: "That's too bad about your dad. Do you want me to go on Friday?"
Me: "No, I really, really appreciate it, but I will be okay."
W: "Is that other woman going?"
Me: "Of course not W"
A little later, she had SS call me to tell me that he was sorry to hear about my grandpa. He was sweet.
Good times.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce