Originally Posted By: Julz
I'm probably being too nice but I got a block of his favourite chocolates (Toblerone) and a photo frame - I took the kids to the beach on Sunday and took some photos of them - and also drew in the sand "We love daddy" and photographed that. I'm trying to be the better person.



Excellent work! I was so happy to read that. That's just how I was the first time we separated.. and I'm working on that again. I strive to get through this with grace, love and dignity. Someone told me once to slash his tires (during our first seperation) and I remember being horrified by the idea.


Me: 32/ H: 32/ S5/ D4
T: 14/ M: 10
ILYB #1 (w/ OW#1, then OW#2): Summer 2008
Recon: Winter 2009
ILYB #2: Summer 2011 (w/ OW#3)
Asked for S: Sept 2011

H has moved out, wants D. Wants to remain good friends.