I remember one day my XW called me at work and demanded that I stay home the next day with D9, who was sick.

I wasn't in a good place then still I was happy with what I said.

I told her she "couldn't demand that I do something." She could ask. She hung up.

It could be a simple boundaries statement. When we talk I will not be yelled at, swore at ....

It's a tough spot. I'm glad I didn't really face that.

Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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