I think you know me well enough to know that I don't care what other people think about us here in MLC.
TBH, I was in denial about what it was for a long time. No matter how much I read, I didn't want to believe that I was dealing with this.
So do I think it is something we make up to keep holding on?
No.
I believe it is something that I wouldn't wish on anyone, and I believe it is something that I have had to endure to get to the place I am in now in my life.
For me, it was a necessary part of my journey.
If someone had told me that the person I loved would become someone completly opposite I would never have believed it was possible until I lived it.
Now...I believe that anything can happen. And I believe in miracles as well...
There are always Skittles at the end of the rainbow Seeking.
Sometimes, we just have to follow that arch a little further to find them...
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox