Wow Antonia. Sounds like you and MHL have had one hell of a week. I really don't have any advice because I am a noob compared to you guys, but I'm wondering if you and MHL had a spouse that spewed hate the way mine did. Mine told me she has been miserable for years. I'm just wondering if you had that because now you are getting an apology.

Tad

Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13