It was mostly a good day. Went to work, pick up youngest D,came home got lots of paperwork done,made dinner, went to school open house, youngest went to her dad's, I went to the gym, came home again. There was a strange car in the driveway. I was a woman exh has know for 2 years. I told him we had agreed to not bring dates home while I was living next door still. He said it was just a friend but well I don't quite believe him. I was hoping I wouldn't react this badly but I was still hit from the side and I stupidly started grilling him. Was he sure she was just a friend, was he interested in her, then I stupidly started asking why he let our marriage end and destroyed our family. Just a bad case of can't shut up-itis. Serious backslide but I think in a way I needed it also.