Thank you SA. I really do feel hopeless now too. A miracle if he woke up. He is in so deep. I thought he may be peeking out of tunnel a little after our convo last week but he lied about seeing the kids and I realized I can't trust him at all. At least with the papers I can feel a little more financially secure. Hopefully, wont have to have contact with him and asking for money anymore. Just automatic. I need to get far away from his actions. He is going to be very angry when he gets the details of the D I think. But, we shall see. I would think my H's OW would be wondering why he's not filing either. I suppose I will make her day when he receives the papers! Oh well..
