Got an apology from XH. Need advice now.

[irishblessings]

Antonia -
You are doing really well. As I read through your posts - I wasn't thinking about what HE was saying. Mostly because I don't think it matters. IMO HE is not a healthy choice for you right now.
A seasoned poster here (25...she's great) - often talks about keeping the road back home paved...or something like that. I'm reading your post as an outsider but my thoughts went to you keeping yourself moving forward and don't get too caught up in his words. It's his ACTIONS that really count.
(Remember to say the same things to me IF my XH ever moves beyond "I'm sorry I got caught!)
IB