TG, I think you now have a great and healthy perspective on GAL'ing. For me, it seems like I am GAL'ing to find myself and it sounds like that's where you are now. It's an opportunity to try some new things you've never tried before. What our spouses think should not factor into the equation. By doing the GAL'ing, you are not at home sulking in misery.
I agree. At first I thought GAL'ing was more about making my H jealous and living the high life. I found I wasn't having fun. I refuse to be a bar fly. I admit, I do go out with my girlfriends sometimes, but it is because I want to, not because I am being someone I am not. I'm trying to figure out who I am.
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤
For me, it seems like I am GAL'ing to find myself and it sounds like that's where you are now. It's an opportunity to try some new things you've never tried before. What our spouses think should not factor into the equation. By doing the GAL'ing, you are not at home sulking in misery. 