Unbelievable. W just brought up the procedural D thing blew up again. She got a response from her atty that was different than my request….imagine that. She is full of hate. I am glad the kids aren’t here. She keeps calling me a liar. I am full of sh*t. I told her I will not be disrespected. I will no longer be demeaned. I told her that she keeps spinning everything into a negative and that’s why we’re getting divorced. She has vilified me into a complete demon. She is creating this hate and I told her that. I have been open and honest as possible.

I did not raise my voice even though she was screaming at me. Where is that beautiful person? She is gone.

She says she can’t focus on work. Is afraid of losing her job. Says she hates to hear my voice or see my face.

How do I avoid these confrontations. They are so hurtful. She starts spewing venom almost immediately. Should I just sit here in silence and add to her thoughts that I am not willing to talk about anything? I feel like throwing her out of the house.