"I was able to get her to admit that, that is an EA even though she denies having feelings for him." "She said I didn't, but I was able to refute what she said and that i had used the word very clearly on that day multiple times and in fact called her an adulterer." "So, it's clear to me she is lying, she knew it was an affair all along."
"I was also able to get her to commit to agreeing to talk face to face instead of by email. In the future, if she tries to communicate by email I will just 1 word answers."
"She also told me that it was ok if I sat closer to her when I asked if it was ok,"
I agree with the others that your conversation was full of control issues. You kept pressing her for your concerns. Which is understandable, however, right now she's not thinking about you. Just her. You have to be able to put yourself into her shoes and be more sympathetic if you want her back.
You do guilt her also. Those aren't characteristics of a relationship someone wants to go back to.
After you "got" her to agree to those things, why would you push for a separation now? Once you're separated, she's not going to see any changes of yours.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
