I don't disagree with you that the kids see mommy and daddy aren't very friendly right now. They can probably just feel the tension. I do know someday that will change. And yes, it will be me making the change to act more cordial...

I am very congnizant of not arguing in front of the kids. That is my boys biggest issue is that we don't argue.

Remarried 6 mo
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