W just informed me - by e-mail - that she is filing for D this week.
I am so sorry, Telemark.
I think you're getting some wise counsel.
Originally Posted By: LearningPatience
Take a little time to process all the emotions I'm sure are swimming inside of you. Feel them, experience them, whatever you do don't ignore them.
You will be fine, that I think we can both agree on!
I agree. Take all the time you need to process this this.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
Thanks for the warning"
What else is there to say, really?
In my book, that was the perfect response.
Originally Posted By: lc4
And gee whiz...nice timing on her part (NOT) right when she had to know you were feeling a little sad/lonely about your son leaving for boot camp. Not respectful, not nice and NOT cool.
I agree. Very, very tacky.
Originally Posted By: lc4
Keep your heart and mind open to God's will. He will always lead you the right way.
Yes! Definitely do this. This is what I am praying for among other things.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
Honestly, I think God is leading me away from this mess.
I am going to disagree with you, Telemark. But note, this is only my opinion. I think God is leading you THROUGH this mess. He is making you a better man. He is growing you. There's a much bigger picture - bigger than you or I could imagine. You WILL persevere.
Originally Posted By: Mach1
Let her go for now....
Now, isn't forever
I agree with this.
While all of this appears to be very probable, too, it hasn't happened yet. She hasn't filed yet. OM hasn't moved yet.