Originally Posted By: Telemark

W just informed me - by e-mail - that she is filing for D this week.

I am so sorry, Telemark.

I think you're getting some wise counsel.

Originally Posted By: LearningPatience

Take a little time to process all the emotions I'm sure are swimming inside of you. Feel them, experience them, whatever you do don't ignore them.

You will be fine, that I think we can both agree on!

I agree. Take all the time you need to process this this.

Originally Posted By: Telemark

Thanks for the warning"

What else is there to say, really?

In my book, that was the perfect response.

Originally Posted By: lc4

And gee whiz...nice timing on her part (NOT) right when she had to know you were feeling a little sad/lonely about your son leaving for boot camp. Not respectful, not nice and NOT cool.

I agree. Very, very tacky.

Originally Posted By: lc4

Keep your heart and mind open to God's will. He will always lead you the right way.

Yes! Definitely do this. This is what I am praying for among other things.

Originally Posted By: Telemark

Honestly, I think God is leading me away from this mess.

I am going to disagree with you, Telemark. But note, this is only my opinion. I think God is leading you THROUGH this mess. He is making you a better man. He is growing you. There's a much bigger picture - bigger than you or I could imagine. You WILL persevere.

Originally Posted By: Mach1

Let her go for now....

Now, isn't forever

I agree with this.

While all of this appears to be very probable, too, it hasn't happened yet. She hasn't filed yet. OM hasn't moved yet.


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26