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[aeolianchaos]

he is the one with the problem communicating.

hmm..

Another alternative, he could have just put on his BBP.

Maybe thats what he needs to tell you about ..

Whatever the case, I should prepare myself for anything.

Good wisdom. What if he says he is having an A? I'm not saying he is, but if he does - what would be the most effective way to deal w/ that?

Well now he has taken that back and is trying to use it against me. He had plenty of opportunity (5 years) to back out of it if he didn't want to marry so I think it is TOTAL BS.

From your perspective - it probably is total BS.

From his - who knows, people have all sorts of perspectives and usually its a mix of experience and fantasy.