Speeding away from the scene of the crime, leaving the LBS in a state of confusion.
What seems the worst, is only what you spin from it.
The worst part has already happened, and you are here still.
These things that you are about to encounter, you must feel them, process them, and keep them into the proper perspective for yourself.
What she is doing, isn't that she is doing them to you, rather she is doing them for herself.
I know it sux, but it only has to sukc as bad as you let it sukc.
When you finally get served ( and I assume it hasn't happened yet ) , the best course of action for you....
Is to set aside all of your feelings toward what is, or what isn't happening legally. Separate them , so that you can act from a place of thinking instead of a place of pure emotion. Making emotional decisions right now is not what is best for you....
Question for you ?
Will the outcome of this ( holding those papers in your hand ) make you love your wife any less ?
Let her go for now....
Now, isn't forever.
Try to limit any contact that does not pertain to the children, it is for the best right now.
Don't respond to every little demand that you will get from her legally ( and you will get them )
Don't respond to the personal attacks at all....
I would suppose that you will see some anger from her throughout this process...
She will need that to push away from you further. DO NOT feed that drama with her.
