Honestly, I think God is leading me away from this mess. If she were simply living on her own, or even with a female roommate, I'd be DBing my butt off. But for her to invite the OM to move cross-country to live with her and then try to tell me "Oh, we're just friends" is more than I'm willing to stand for and shows me she is someone who has no desire to save the marriage.

In the last 6 months I've made plenty of mistakes and maybe those mistakes accelerated her actions. But she has never looked back as she has sped away. I'm letting her go.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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