I think that things are going so well that you need to stick with status quo for now. I'm afraid if you try to do a R talk, she's going to back away. You are doing things JUST RIGHT right now. You have made changes, she is seeing them in you and is very interested. Just stay consistent and patient. When she's ready, she'll bring the R talk up. In the meantime, stay the course!!! I'm so happy for you that things are going well.
