How should I handle the situation with the kids? As I mentioned before I don't want to use them as a game piece, but my wife needs to see what she is doing is hurting the kids. I bought my oldest a cell phone so she could call me or her mom anytime...I hoped this would help with the transition. So what do I do when she calls asking to come back home with me? Should I make her stay at her moms? Should I go get her? What about when my wife calls me telling me that my kids are upset? Well I guess I should just not answer the phone when the W calls, right?
I just feel like by me always going and getting them I'm keeping my W from seeing the hurt she is causing. BUT, I can't stand to see my girls cry.
