TG - I think you're right - we have this vision in our head of what "GAL" means, and then we try to conform to it.

Once I stopped trying to "force" myself to do things often considered "fun", I actually started having fun. That's when I realised that my idea of fun is a casual happy hour with friends, or curling up with some tea and a good book, or watching telly shows online while chatting with some close friends - nothing huge and grand, but it's amazing how much better it made me feel.

H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11