TM- I am so sorry to hear that she used email to inform you of filing for D. That is so painful and so impersonal and shows a complete lack of respect for you and for your relationship. I know this feeling well. My wife advised me of our separation by email and told me that she would not file for divorce but she wanted to live apart for a time. Then 21 days later sent me another email saying she had seen a lawyer that day and had filed for D. I will pray for you and your wife.
Me:61 W:60 M: 26 No kids ILYBININLWY AUG 10 S: 5/20/11 D filed 6/23/2011