Seeking - my youngest went back to grad school today, after the summer. I am sad, to be honest, and a little down today, although in a good way, because I miss him, although I will see him again in a few weeks . . . . My xh has not seen him for a long time . . . much more than a year, perhaps two. I don't even know when they last met. How does he live with it?
They are in altered state. Now of course he wants an r with his son, but he hasn't got to the point of saying he is sorry. I would do anything to rebuild an r with my child, these MLCers cannot even say sorry for what they have done . . . it is so very very sad for them and their children.
The MLcer feels like a victim, the child has been so very hurt. And as long as they are in MLC they are not able to do the things they need to do in order to even try and put it right
