It's my birthday today. H forgot. On his way out the door this a.m. he asked "so is there anything going on today?" And I said "no....not really..."

Then kissed him goodbye and he asked again so is there anything going on today? Then I said "my birthday......" and he said "OH!!!!!!! Your birthday!" He told me to have a good day and was out the door.

Whatever. See typically, I am the planner of the birthdays, the parties, the get togethers. Even my own. I decided not to plan my own birthday this year to see what would happen.

Am having a cocktail after work with a girlfriend so that will be fun.

Not gonna make any plans with H. If he wants to drum something up...fine!


Me - 49
H - 56
S - 23
D - 20
Married 25 years
H moved out 10/11/13
H moved back in 10/13/13
H moved out again 8/1/14