e just kept going at me saying I didn't care about him.
What is this about?
Does he believe he cares about you?
Does he believe his actions demonstrate that?
I think this is a really good place to begin establishing a boundary - specifically him using "you don't care about me" accusations as a way to get what he wants. You don't deserve to be manipulated like that.
BBP? Ball Busting Protocol?
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.